Reviews is one of the earliest dating sites. According to its About page, the site has been offering dating services since 1996. This site claims its major goal is to help men and women find an international compatible match. The majority of women we found on this site originated from Asia, South America, and Eastern Europe. The site gets about 80,000 visitors every month. In this review, we will help you figure out if joining will be beneficial to you or not. Main Features Reviewed

For anyone to start meeting potential romantic partners on, he or she has to create an account. Account creation is free. The dating site has an old design which makes it hard for someone who has never used it before to figure out where to start. If you are trying to create an account, you will find a menu on the left-hand column. If you are a man, you need to click the “Men’s FREE Registration” link. Women will need to click “Women’s Registration” link.

If you click the “Men’s FREE Registration” link, you will be required to fill your details including your first and last name, your email address, date of birth, country, and who you are interested in. The “Women’s Registration” link takes you to a page where you have to fill out a questionnaire. This questionnaire will require you to fill out all your personal details including a minimum of 2 photos, your contact details, your names, date of birth, age, and more.

After the registration, will allow you to start dating. You will have the ability to browse through the women’s profiles if you are a man. These profiles will include important personal details such as height, marital status, weight, children, religion, job, education, and more. The site has a search option that allows you to find women more quickly. You can search women based on their age, whether they drink, whether they have children, their English skill level, and more.

The site allows communication through text messages and telephone calls. will also help you send gifts and flowers to a woman’s house. The dating site offers men a chance to meet the women who interest them personally. The site organizes romantic tours to various locations around the globe. handles everything during the tour including hotel bookings and VISA applications. Pros and Cons Reviewed has a lot of promises to men and women who want to find an international compatible match. We decided to dig deeper to determine whether all the promises are true. To figure out how good is, we had to check reviews. We found reviews on the web and over 90% of them were negative. For this reason, we wouldn’t advise anyone to use since its service is not convenient for a visitor. Below, we have outlined the pros and cons.


  • It has been around for over 2 decades.

  • The site offers romantic tours.



  • It has a cluttered website design.

  • It has a large number of fake profiles.

  • Poor customer support.

  • The site has many hidden charges.

  • People working for respond to messages while pretending to be women.

  • You have to pay to write a letter or to open one.

  • The site has poor safety guarantees. Prices Reviewed

Account creation is free at Also, you get to browse profiles for free. However, if you get interested in a woman, you will have to pay to send the woman a message. It will cost you $9.99 for you to get the woman’s address. Also, the $9.99 will include a translation service. 


Platinum membership


Cost (USA)
The first month
Every next month

Overall: is a Scam or Trusted Site?

Our research proved that there are too many scam reports available on the web. The site has a large number of fake profiles. In the reviews we have come across, reviewers have confessed that the dating site hires people to reply to messages. They use these fake message replies to rip people off their money since every time you send or receive a message, you have to pay. The site includes too many hidden charges which make it hard for people to keep up with the costs.


If you have an issue you need the customer support department to address, it will be hard for you to get a reply from them. For all these reasons, we wouldn’t advise anyone to consider trusting This is a scam site which will take advantage of your need to find an international romantic partner to rip you off your hard-earned cash.

  • Easy to use: 6/10
  • Easy registration: 6/10
  • Number of accounts: 7/10
  • Quality of profiles: 5/10
  • Simplicity of search: 5/10
  • Customer Support: 3/10
  • Price: 5/10
  • Variety of services provided
  • Bad design/not very intuitive navigation
  • Fake profiles/scammers
  • Financial Security: no
  • Innovation Features: yes
  • Services Variety: yes
  • Scam: yes
  • Free photo access: yes
  • Free message sending: yes
  • Two-way video chat: no reviews (20)

  1. Davey Sez
    March 19, 2020 at 11:03 PM

    I think there is a reason some of you are online complaining instead of being out in the world meeting women. Please note, this ain't attractive, especially to women. I have been on several tours with AFA and have nothing but good things to say about them. I met my wife on one of their tours. A lot of you guys on here have you-know-what coming out of your ears. It says right on the fricking website that the letters go through the staff who help with translation assistance! You really think the staff is going to allow letters from the ladies that ask for money and all this crap? Do you think they want to cut off their own nose like that? You clearly haven't even used the service. The only way they could EVER hit you up for money is if you go meet them, which you clearly didn't do and are just trolling online. Get a life or find something more productive to do. Not saying the women are perfect, and there is definitely some differences between pictures on a website and real life, but if you had ever actually sent a letter, you would know perverted stuff and begging for money won't be passed along. Get a clue!

  2. Rich
    February 15, 2020 at 3:28 PM

    Interrupted post. This company is tailored for wealthy patrons such as the 5 star review Nicholas. Ukraine is a very money driven country. And if you are black this is not a very good place for you to visit unless you have the wealth of the upper class American. This is for the "Money is no object crowd." However, if you are determined beyond reason to see for yourself, the show up with no less than $3,000 to $5,000 USD in addition to hotel and flight prices. If your lady doesn't speak much English you will see why I suggested this amount. Hope this helps someone else.

  3. Rambo
    December 29, 2019 at 6:05 PM

    This site used to be legit . You used to be able to purchase the women’s email addresses and I had much success with this . I’m not sure at what point they stopped letting you buy the email address, but this is when the big scam started ! Ten dollars to send an email then ten dollars to open it ! Crazy ! Then as other men stated , you request their email or phone number and they never send it to you ,but they keep sending you $10 emails to open . How do none of these gals send you their phone number or email address? None ?? Scam! The other thing that’s a huge red flag scam is when you write them they never answer any of your questions about anything . It’s like they didn’t even read the email you sent . You get emails that your reading and just shaking your head like what the hell is she talking about !! Stay away from this site ! Their single tours may be real but their letter system for meeting women is a total scam !!

  4. Robert
    December 25, 2019 at 7:00 PM

    Majority of guys on here are not stupid it's good to see you can see scan straight away ,,, this website it just complete scanner keep well away

  5. Matthew Jones
    November 28, 2019 at 5:10 PM

    Many fake woman. They are con men that prey on lonely men looking to find their 2nd half. You will be wasting your money if you pay to talk with these women.

  6. Nicholas
    August 30, 2019 at 9:50 PM

    I would like to comment something very positive in my experience about AFA( I'm self employed...have several businesses in the service industry --- so, you could say I'm probably savvy. So...back in April, I began researching AFA/ I read lots and lots of reviews...some neutral, some bad...and even a great deal of very positive stuff....and many other services out there --- I think a lot of people don't know(which I now do), that in the late 90s, a scumbag did go overseas and met a lady, brought her back here, and murdered our government, worked with the people in the business at that time, and helped develop what's called IMBRA(International Marriage Broker Regulation Act of 2005)...I didn't have a clue either...but...basically, it says that the agencies make the ladies sign an agreement, that they will not give out their contact information until they've met the guy in person and sign their IMBRA turn, they will get a very basic amount of history on each they can make an informed decision. So...I started out...filtering through the mountains of girls, finding what I'm looking for --- in the process, you learn right away...there are a lot of women overseas, who don't really have a clue about AMERICA, only the freedom part. But...I'm not very serious, and have skyped and had phone calls with 5 out of the 29 on my favorites list. Yes, I pay incoming, and outgoing...and yes, their system is secure...and yes, they answer the I call a few times a week....questions, questions, the culture overseas is sooo different --- one thing to note...guys, I found out about a New Zealand'er named Stryker, who has developed a free site, with over 40 videos on YouTube, who HAS been overseas, and who has used AFA/ extensively...a lot like I have now...Let's face it fellas, you're not going to fall in love with the first girl...but...if you're serious...and you're thorough, and you find an organization that answers the phone do have a better chance at it. For me though...I am choosing their executive's up at $15k...but, they take a lot more time with you, and you fly down to their office in Chicago or Phx and spend the day with them...and then there's a lot more effort spent helping you understand the girls...meaning an actual girl from the area where you're looking will be on the phone/Skype/In pick up the subtle nuances...that we guys(IN ANOTHER LANGUAGE, don't pick up)...for me...that money is well spent!! ***NEVER ANY BILLING ISSUES>>>JUST STRAIGHTFORWARD...they do what they say...and so far...every single woman I've called or skyped has been real all the way --- I'm happy...and the five I've really developed something strong with...they seem to be really the types I am exposed to here...mover and shaker types. Honestly, if you're looking seriously to marry THE RIGHT ONE...loveme,com(which is A Foreign Affair), has a package for you...and honestly...a $3500(or 5600 for two weeks) week overseas, where they stay with you most of the time...pick you up at the airport...and really great socials...and interpreters...NOT A BAD BUY!!

  7. hye
    July 23, 2019 at 3:10 PM

    this website was good, I met several women. I paid for their email address and we started chatting right away. about three years ago they changed and makes you pay to send and open emails from the girls. I gave 5 girls my email and explained I can not afford to pay each time I messgae them and pay agian to open thier message. if they wanted to chat send to my email address. But they keep sending messages through the pay service which shows this is a scam. girls their know money is tight and I doubt they pay anything to send messages. the only way they sending meesages is they get kick backs which i doubt because they are not going to risk losing a man over 5.00 usd. Its probably a person writing on behalf of the girls and once you pay a certain amount they will give you the girls info. which means all your message will be in vain. today I got 5 respnces from 5 girls I sent messages last night. Somehow all the girls resonded to me in a 10 min time frame. In the past I knew plenty people meet girls now I wouldnot recommed using ths site, In the past I talked to the owner about his experience bcs he married a lady from another country The offfice is in phoenix. they were helpful getting me started and the process was easy and trustworthy, I started using them back in 2000 when they were legit now this site is a rip off.

  8. joey
    July 08, 2019 at 10:04 PM is scam - this is 2019- why should letters/emails still be used- if the girl cant get online and videochat then noway you can tell who your writing to.could be a man employie or 50yrs old lady- if you cant see them on cam then f..k them

  9. Keith
    June 24, 2019 at 11:24 PM

    If this site is so bad and a fake! Then how is the law letting them stay online? Did anyone report this site to the FBI? I don't understand this!

  10. Jeff
    May 30, 2019 at 12:08 AM

    It's true. will not allow you to get the contact info of the woman--assuming the woman is even real. If she is, boy, her english is near college level, and yet, on the video, she can barely form a sentence... probably has rented a closet in the Philippines with a bunch of ugly old men responding to letters. I called up in Arizona, and asked them to explain how the lady's english could be so much improved compared to the video sample--the russian lady's answer was, "Oh, you can call them! Why? so you can get more cash out of me for the privilege of taking to the other closet--the one with the ugly old ladies this time, posing as the girl you're interested in? No thanks. is screwing over the client,and the girl, who, most likely, isn't really being exposed

  11. Art
    May 28, 2019 at 3:45 PM

    I, like other reviewers here, am very skeptical of this website. I think a big percentage of the girls on here are fake and probably paid by the website to lure lonely old men into their trap and then extract as much money as they can from the men. Every time I have become interested in a girl, they all say age is just a number and it doesn't matter. I am 45, and when I find that a 22 year old girl says she is interested in me I immediately become skeptical. The Russians are the worst. They all look like hookers and only want your money. I would stay away from this site. I think it's a huge scam. Maybe the Chinese girls are more authentic. Most of them look very sweet and innocent. They don't look like the Russian hookers, but I still don't trust any of them. Besides, this website is way too expensive.

  12. Jorge
    April 06, 2019 at 10:20 PM

    They don’t allow me to get the phone number or address of the lady I am interested in. They just want me to continue paying $10 every time I read her letter and 10 times every time I send her a letter. I also noticed that the person who is responding may not be the person I am interested but it sounded weird so I decided to completely delete the website of my computer.

  13. Blood
    January 20, 2019 at 7:54 PM

    Blood Sucker ... that's exactly the profile I made in and immediately I got tons of love letters at 10 usd each ( plus3.50$ per photo) from beautiful women that said they had fallen in love with Blood Sucker, me posting a picture of a ninety year old man with a walking stick on the arm of a 6 foot 2 tall blond model... You have to be crazy to believe in this crap

  14. Mike
    January 15, 2019 at 6:16 PM

    I have known for quite a while that sites like this one, use pictures of fake women and fake emails but they kinda suck at what they do although quite amusing for me to watch. When I received an introduction leading with: " Well, well,{name], I am giving up! Last chance to jump at the leaving "train" > hah =)" ... CLEARLY, those are pre-written and those scammers only need to put in the name of a potential sucker. I wrote the site to complain about what was obviously pre-written messages and this is what they answered with: "Dear, The letters you are receiving are introduction letters; That means, messages writing by the ladies but they are sent to all of the clients that match the lady's preferences such as age range, Marital status, etc. It’s a matching system and when lady has no problem with age difference or others, the letters are sent to all of the clients." That proves, without any doubt, that they are the lowest form of crooks. They prey on men by sending thousands of emails to unsuspecting suckers willing to spend hard earned money chatting with just about anyone including other men, without the consent of the women in the pictures. are crooks...nothing more! More proof? Try to find the most beautiful women they have on their site on the videos in Ukraine. You will not find a single one of them. Furthermore, once you send out messages to one of them, check them out at Same women but they will not recognize you. About their socials, all paid for young women who have ZERO interest in you. They want to be wined and dined at the best restaurants and hope you will take them shopping. Once your gone, that's it! Wake up, people! is just another scamming site.

  15. Patricio
    October 18, 2018 at 6:00 AM

    In the time that have check out this site and used it, it did not please me at all. In my opinion, the support team is quite discouraging because it is slow and also the information is very scant. Additionally, you can hardly trust who you find there. In my case, I saw girls that share the same picture but have different names. On other occasions, these girls had similar names, and in two profiles. I got really confused because I was wondering whether they put up ne profile after moving. Or is it that they decided to up another profile because they could not get good results? I have also tried tracking several girls that appear and disappear. I tend to think that the legit ones do not stay in the site for long. I asked the support team about the girls’ disappearance form the sight over time but got no answer. When they cannot verify about them getting married, they say they refused to pay dues. It’s a weird site generally.

  16. Dylan
    July 16, 2018 at 6:33 PM

    The customer support is terribly hopeless. I had an indication that all my messages were replied by some guy, and every time we exchanged the mails, it appeared that the person had no idea about what the last was mail about. I was told a new story in every mail. And, when I contacted the customer support regarding this issue there was no response from their side. I wanted to know how their system worked, but they chose to ignore my mails.

  17. Lewis
    June 11, 2017 at 10:51 AM

    I met two women on this website, both of whom refused to give me their mobile numbers. They insisted that we talk only on emails, and, sending an email every time require me to pay $10…further to read their email, I was required to pay $10. We were having good talks on the emails, however, it was not going any further. It seemed like thy never wanted me to stop sending emails. And, at a time I was not even sure about who was on the other side of the screen. I mean there is a possibility that a man was replying to all my messages.

  18. Frank
    May 07, 2017 at 3:55 PM

    I got into a big scam. This wife scammed me a big way, and now even I am ashamed to admit it….it was like I was hypnotized. However, I will tell my story, because I don’t want others to be scammed on this site. Sometime back I came in contact with a girl named Tatanya on this site. She was extremely attractive, and it was love at first site for me. We started talking, and, one day she told me about her ill grandmother, but, refused my help, when I offered. I was impressed, and we continued talking. Then, one day she told how she wants to meet me, but doesn’t have enough money for air travel. Now, even I was planning to meet her, but was unable to do so, because of my work commitments, so I agreed to send her money for tickets, and, visa. She thanked me profusely, but on the next day her account was deleted, she had just vanished from life, and I was not able to contact her anymore. Now, I don’t know what to do, I feel stupid for trusting a stranger, and, have resolved to never visit such dating sites.

  19. Stanley
    May 07, 2017 at 10:02 AM

    In the year 2016, I had met a Russian girl on this website. She was tall, slim, and just gorgeous. We started talking, and, it appeared that she was interested in me. Being an average looking man, I was never sure about why she was even interested in talking to me, as she was way out of my league. But, still we continued our conversation. And, soon our conservations turned sexual….in the emails she used to explain what she wanted to do to me…and, it was really hot. One day she told me a story about how she was in debts, and wanted money. I sensed something fishy, and, stopped talking to her. I was sad, but I just didn’t trust her enough to transfer the money. Now, after reading the reviews of this website, I feel that I made a right decision, and perhaps there was no woman, and, I was just talking to a man who was not new in looting money from the Americans.

  20. Michael
    March 09, 2017 at 7:59 PM

    I joined this site, because I have a thing for foreign girls. And, wanted to date someone, and even marry someone foreign. And, as this site was really cheap, so I didn’t even think twice before joining this site. However, this turned out to be a huge mistake, I wanted to be in a relationship, and never thought that I would have to meet the girl, and, travelling was not at all possible for me. And, neither did I want to transfer the money to some stranger, because she said that she wanted to come, and meet me. This led in a very difficult situation, as now I understand that it is very difficult to be in a relationship, without meeting the person. And, I never thought about the future. This resulted in all my relationship being short term, and, ending when I refused to meet the girl.

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