There are 52.4% of men and 47.6% of women on dating sites nowadays. The Internet offers a huge variety of choices: beautiful Russian brides, handsome Scandinavian guys, cute Ukrainian women, hot Indian men. You may find a girlfriend or boyfriend from anywhere. But sometimes things can go wrong. Therefore, if a woman stops responding to messages, the man immediately thinks that she has found someone else or that it can be just a case of ghosting. After all, women have more choices. What’s interesting is that a woman may have many and various reasons for why they would stop communicating either temporarily or permanently.
A Woman Is Afraid to Seem Intrusive
In fact, this is one of the most common reasons. Even if you show that you really like her, and you are interested in communicating with her, a woman will not risk seeming annoying. Maybe it's on the subconscious level. Is she acting like a child? Young girls often hear that they should not chase the boys. In addition, a woman may have had the experience of unsuccessful communication with another man so now she is reticent to text too frequently. If after a long pause in the conversation you write to the woman, and she continues the conversation as before, then this is likely the case. Now, she is calm, and it will be easier to continue the dialogue further.
She Doesn't Know What to Say
This problem is typical for the beginning of the relationship. The woman doesn't know you well. She doesn't know your common interests so she is afraid to continue the conversation after receiving your message. The woman does not want to seem ordinary and annoying so she does not show a desire to write. Text first if you feel that communication has stopped in a strange way. Find an interesting topic to discuss. If the problem was a lack of ideas in terms of things the woman wants to talk about, then take the lead with new and interesting topics and your dialogue will be interesting and consistent.
A Woman Creates the Illusion of Competition
If a woman texts you occasionally, and you see that she is online, then most likely this is one of the feminine tricks. Women are often afraid to start a conversation or respond too quickly because a man may think that she has no admirers at all. From the point of view of women, frequent and detailed answers can mean an absolute lack of privacy. If the woman texts rarely, perhaps too many men write to her. For ladies, it is important to create a sense of competition for men as this motivates them to move faster to action. Mostly, a woman wants to correspond with you for months or even years. 60% of women on dating sites want to start a relationship in real life so she is motivating you to arrange a real date.
Lack of Time
It can sound like a trivial excuse, but a woman has her own job, hobbies, and friends. There are especially busy women who prefer to do something useful and productive all the time. Such women do not pay attention to who writes first and who is the initiator of communication. These women just hang out when they get the chance. With such a woman, it’s a good idea to meet and communicate in real life.
She Thinks You Are Interested in Someone Else
If you take a long time to meet in real life, a woman may have the impression that you already have a lover. In that case, she just does not want to disturb you. She's afraid to look stupid in the end. Even more, photos with another woman on your profile can aggravate the situation. A woman may just be too shy to ask, who is in your photos. Therefore, choose the pictures carefully and try not to spend a lot of time only communicating online.
It happens that after the first date people understand that they don't have any common interests and topics for conversation. In this case, a woman simply does not see the point in continuing the relationship. A man and a woman, who are considering dating or being in a relationship, should have a similar view of the world.
She Is Bored
It appears that a woman can be bored and tired of communicating with a new man. This happens because the man is too banal in conversation, or their interests are completely opposite. But most women are empathetic so she cannot freely say that you are boring. Therefore, it is easier for her to ignore you as it lets her avoid hurting or offending you.
She Tests You
She Tests You
Women like to make an exciting novel out of their lives. To add an interesting episode to her novel, she can arrange a test for you. She's wondering how strong your interest is. So, the sooner you write to such a woman, the happier she will be. Thus, you will show how much you are interested in communicating with her. It is advisable to ask why she did not write and say that you missed chatting with her.
She Doesn't like Texting
It is possible that the woman is the type of person who uses the Internet and social networks to make a real connection. It is important for a woman to not only receive compliments on the screen of a smartphone or computer; she wants to see the love in your eyes, feel your touch, and hear your laughter. Long-term communication on the Internet is torture for this kind of woman. Therefore, it’s better not to postpone the date, especially if you see the woman taking initiative.
She Wants to Break Up
If you’re attempting to start a relationship with a woman, and she suddenly stops noticing you, responding to your messages, or she responds shortly, then she wants to stop this relationship. According to statistics, 48% of relationships that began on the Internet, end there too. Therefore, if a woman does not show any desire to communicate and meet with you, try to clarify the situation. It is better to ask her directly whether she wants to continue communicating with you or not. But be prepared for a response you won't like. You should not insult a woman if she has lost interest in you.
In conclusion, it should be noted that during the acquaintance phase, it is normal that the initiator of communication is the man. Therefore, if a woman does not write to you first or does not respond to your messages, analyze the situation and try to fix it. If you have spent enough time trying to build a new relationship, but the woman shows no initiative, it may be a signal that she is not interested in you.
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